No one can live it better than you

Sometimes there's a problem appearing in our lives - "passed stage". We often face life's challenges without considering our next step - after we've overcome them. What's next? We used to be solving the Big Problem so intensively! Passing exams, graduating from the university, retiring... and what are we going to do now?

I guess that first of all we feel useless. We're skilled at one thing, and now that it's done, so what? We're unable to do anything else! And that's what really scares. It's like waking up - oh, God, there're so many spheres of life at which we have to be as great as we used to until now, or even better, and we're tired, we need a break... 

Stop! Take a deep breath, Count to ten. Relax! It's your life; no one can live it better than you.

The second step is most common - we're trying to tear ourselves to pieces and get on well at everything. Work, family, friends, useful acquaintances need our attention immediatly (at least as we imagine it). Some of us feel guilty about having a little bit more spare time and not spending it properly. I mean, for everything except for ourselves. Guys! You've finally got freedom to live! It's your life; no one can live it better than you.

And the last wrong-wrong-wrong step is to find another Big Problem among those that we've successfully solved (or not). So what do we get as a result? Vicious circle built with the only one means - fear for living your life. You do not owe anything to anyone. It will never matter how much time you spend at work or how many Stages you've passed. Matters only your feeling alive, happy and calm. You want to have a rest - then have it. You want to travel - do it without any hesitation  and looking back.

 It's your life; no one can live it better than you.

Yours,

RoseMarine

P.S. Thankful to Yan Tsintsevich 
(https://plus.google.com/u/0/107124106574487738097/posts)
for the proofreading.